Ever since last Christmas when we traveled to Ohio and left random
gifts for random people at random places we've continued to try to teach the
kids about doing things for others. And it’s a little difficult to teach a 3
& 5 year old the reasoning behind doing something for someone else without
getting anything in return. Need to take
a quick minute to explain how the kids get their money.
**We also use a token system in
our home for their behavior. They start each week with a certain amount of
tokens. They have the ability to lose them based on their attitudes, their
mouths and the like, but just the same they have the ability to gain more
tokens based on their actions. If they do things without having to be told too,
not fighting with each other or mom & dad they can earn even more. Each token
is worth .25 cents. Yep, we are a cheap pay system here because in our opinion
there are way too many kids that expect entirely too just because. They don’t
have to earn it, they get it just because they say they want it or their friend
has it and that’s not the way we work in this house. At the end of the week their tokens are cashed
in for money. They can only cash in whole $1’s though. Once the money is
figured we start the dividing process. Automatically $1 comes out of whatever
they have earned and goes into their tithing envelope then what’s left is split
in half between savings and spending. **
Alright, now since we've been
teaching about doing things for others and they really don’t understand what it
is to tithe we have kind of made that category for them a little different. We
told them that they can take that money and they can give it to the church or
they can use it to do something nice for someone else, but that someone else
has to be a stranger. (we figured if we didn't put that rule in there they
would try to outsmart us and buy things for each other based on the other
saying oh I want this toy)
The other day I was talking with Serenity
about her tithing money and what she wanted to do with it and without
hesitation she said she wants to buy bibles for people so they can learn about
Jesus. It made my heart so happy that instead of buying toys for someone or
paying for someone’s lunch she wants to make sure that people have the
opportunity to learn about our Lord. We have since sat and talked about praying
and asking who he wants us to buy the bibles for. I told her we have to ask if
we are to buy them for young or old and if we are to send them far away or keep
them near. I’m just so super happy that not only does my girl love Jesus so
much she wants to make sure others do to.
**Last night during bedtime prayers the last thing she said was "Jesus let me know where the bibles need to go." Oh how I love this little girl of mine. She is such a blessing.**
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